2017年1月30日 星期一

Our Day 6 ups & DOWNS In Dubai: Today is one of the days that totally sucks. 我的感冒咳嗽很多天都還沒好,然後Andy今天早上排的第一個杜拜舊城區的杜拜博物館就很不適合坐推車的善善又陰暗吵雜充滿某大國的遊客,女廁還很難排,甚至因爲環境非無障礙空間不適合善善,然後居然有某中國黑衣人佔著無障礙坡道看到坐兒童輪椅的善善而不會不好意思趕快靠邊讓路,居然排廁所時還站我後面讓我因爲印象很差心裡超排拒,在好不容易排到廁所時,我手上只有出國前剛買的單眼相機沒有包包可放,早被他們父子推出去外面了,我只有臨機應變放迷你洗手台才有辦法上廁所,這時發現迷你洗手檯感應出水到我的鏡頭上方,約半小時一小時後,新單眼相機掛了,然後叫車時爸爸又找根本完全不適合的地方等車...我們這時在不好的情緒時,爸爸不沉著不細心地推善善上一個高的人行道磚,之前是沒綁安全帶還是怎樣,善整個人往前從推車掉到地上一秒嚇到還好沒受傷,我情緒就更滿了...後面的點不再想看,因為一日之初情緒就很滿,只想回到熟悉的飯店窩著...爸爸的個性往往在碰到事情時就很冒冒失失失而且推託責任不願意承認負責,也不是一個性格很成熟的人...每天我咳嗽甚至整個晚上都是自己拿藥吃的...其實我今天已經看夠了到處黃土跟阿拉伯文的中東,我已經想回家了,很多時侯沒有無障礙空間,爸爸性格又不夠成熟穩定,溝通表達常常都是片斷不完整溫吞的...來過阿拉伯國家還學會阿拉伯的大男人的氣息那套,可憐的善善是不是根本找錯人投胎

Have The End Result In Mind So You Know You Are On Your Right Path: I love what I learn from a YouTube video on a book review: Have The End Result In Mind to Know Your Right Path. Imagine one day you are attending your own funeral, how would you like to describe this person and this life? Every individual human being wants to achieve different end result although most of us all want joy, peace and abundance. For example, I like myself being described as artistic, creative, innovative, one of a kind, free-spirited inside out, compassionate, loving, mysterious, elegant and beautiful. This is the end result and how I would like to describe myself if I am watching my own funeral and the kind of spirit and soul I would like to describe myself and be seen. But every individual human being wants different end result. And by picturing yourself watching your own funeral and knowing how you would like that person to be in this life time, it's much much more likely that we are true to ourselves and follow our own calling, not others' calling.

I Love Being With Just Me And Connecting To My Authentic Soul In My Alone Time ...It's the most romantic luxurious time being with just me and my authentic soul...


The reason I can't survive without traveling the world is that I really crave new life experiences from year to year, and I really can't stand having a similar life and same life experiences without innovation or creating something new. I crave inspirations, differences and various cultural influences to stimulate me to keep creating.

Change of My English Name:In the End of Frebruary, I will gradually change my English Name to another floral, goodness, or fairy names about nature, flowers, and beauty from the present name Morrisa that I have used for over 20 years. The reason is that when I had my complete soul reading in 2016 December and the trustworthy soul reader suggested me to have a new English name that better suits my original soul plan: to create art, innovate ideas and possibilities, teach, share and serve with my unique life experiences. The Sound of My present name Morrisa can lead to more relationship lessons learnt in the harder ways. And I think since I have been using the name for 20 years, why not giving myself a new name that serves my soul journey and reduce life stress, also giving me a new life in the next 20 years. The other reason that I prefer to have my last name as Love instead of Lai is because I wish to be universal and international, have no boundaries and difference, but not unique or specific in any religion, race or nationality.

My Favourite Time During Our Dubai Holidays has been my alone time and some space of quiet time after Shan Shan And Andy fell asleep before me that I could just chill on bed reflecting on any fresh thoughts which usually couldn't appear when the daily routine in Taiwan is always exactly the same and stressful. I so much enjoy the alone time for a few hours and doing nothing after we come back to the hotel and before we start our day plans. Just Relax and chill...Nothing occupying the mind is the fresh time and the best time where and when fresh possibilities, relaxation and inspirations can exist. I so much appreciate and cherish my daily alone time and some blank space where new things can rise and be given birth.




A Note On Eco Freindly: The hotel Rove Downtown Dubai we stay uses all refillable shower, hand wash and shampoo bottles to reduce small plastic bottles.



A Note On Our Confidence, Stress Management & Strong Problem Solving Skills:We have successfully use uber Dubai to hire a car for short distance for many times just like we did in London , 2016 May, or rent a car with a driver to take us to Abu Dhabi for a day totally by ourselves, even having to talk to all the drivers from various South Asian Countries like Pakistan and Bangladesh with very strong accents, even on the phone about the location which is so difficult to describe when the place is totally new to me and the addresses and bus stop names are all in Arabics that I can't even read or pronounce properly. We even successfully ordered delivery food from a local Dubai seafood restaurant and again spoke on the phone to confirm our order or explain the location when I don't completely understand the person on the other side of the phone with the South Asain accents. We still successfully ordered our delivery food tonight when we were too exhausted to go out for dinner but craved a proper meal with my favourite seafood when ordering through zomato when we are new here and can't even pronounce the address or don't fully understand the strong foreign accent on the phone. But we still successfully make it and overcome all these problems. This make me somehow so proud and confident of our independent traveling abilities. I feel so proud of us being able to do all of this and taking care of our multiple disabled son who can't help a single thing but needs all the help and attention at the same time 24/7 here in UAE.




A Note For My English Only Readers: I do not feel like using English to write or post anything when we are now traveling in Dubai and Abu Dhabi, because it has been very brain energy consuming to read and think in the mixture of English and Arabics, and listen to people's various English accents from all nationalities to work here in Dubai. This is the reason I only prefer to write in Chinese for the past a few days.


Our Day 5 In Abu Dhabi:我覺得這兩天進去七星級帆船飯店和八星級的酋長皇宮飯店喝下午茶非常值得.前者共七道三人要價近15000台幣吃不完.後者要價約三千多塊兩個人一套兩份.但是這兩天的下午茶.讓我們全自助旅行住時尚簡約風.基本便利乾淨的市中心新飯店.可是仍然體驗到世界上最高級的飯店和服務與高級餐具跟超高級用餐體驗和可以進入拍照體驗.不然非住客或用餐無法進入參觀.這是標準的買一輩子珍貴深刻難忘的經驗比起購物之旅更值得的例子


2017年1月29日 星期日

Our Day 5 In Abu Dhabi: 今天進去八星級的阿布達比酋長皇宮飯店喝下午茶時.終於照到一些我比較喜歡的室內優雅風格的自己和我們的人像照片.不然每天推著善善在走路時一點都不適合照相.可能得要照風景照 然後另外後製把人貼上去.不是看起來疲倦就是沒時間梳瀏海.都不會想多拍人物照.因為情境場景需求不適合.我雖然與奢華貴婦風格不相應不共鳴.但旅遊時我只喜歡場景高雅的室內照.特別是坐姿等舒服的環境.只喜歡優雅氣質的環境場景和偏好藝術家風格的照片.謝絕推著善善大量步行時的那種艷陽瞇眼倦容亂髮的失敗率極高的不美的照片.我只喜歡有生命的照片.而不是到此一遊的比ya照



Our Day 5 In Dubai:為什麼都是全自助旅行不會想參加旅行團除了因爲自由也因爲才可能深入和接觸到當地人跟當地生活.參加團體除了時間不自由總是在趕時間跑預定行程什麼都看都做.和到外國依然和本國人群聚.此外會跑行程.會什麼都帶你看可是全部都走馬看花.還有團費外還必需付小費跟每天固定帶你去旅行社合作的紀念品店購物並盯著你得要買 最後加上團費未必真正有便宜到了...不自由也無法深入當地而來會留在表層印象


Our Day 5 In Dubai: 我們的旅人良伴和在家睡眠的良伴蠶絲眼罩讓我在飛機上十個多小時扣除兩餐時間約六個小時睡眠有睡得好ㄧ點.在飯店也更能隔絕光源睡好.因為善每天睡覺都要開至少ㄧ盞燈以上



Our Day 4 In Dubai: 其實我和Andy不是那種很相似像好朋友那樣的伴侶.我們比較像是剛剛好完全互補.完全需要對方的能力才能加乘原本價值的那種伴侶 性格上比較偏向是相剋而於是相生 剛剛好完全適合激發出對方的潛能的互補型的伴侶 例如我需要他做規畫執行細節那些繁瑣的事 而他非常需要我的決斷能力跟看事情的廣度深度剛跟長遠性.還有對外溝通的能力 像是出國自助旅行都是推我出去說 要我接電話 或是需要我做決定的快速清楚明晰果斷 因為我真的表達得比他清楚直接而詳細無數倍...他務實而仔細.我有長遠深廣的眼光大器和魄力. 我需要他的沉穩不變.他需要我的推進力跟前瞻創新.我們都需要對方的能力才能共同升級.我比較像我們家的頭腦跟眼睛和嘴巴.他則比較像是我們家的身體.往往他大事都需要問我意見方向.然後他去酌磨細項 結果是最好的...他自己也跟善善說過.聽媽媽的結果最好 Morrisa



Our Day 4 In Dubai我感恩的是原來飯店安排我們住矮樓層的1F.相當於3F 因爲底下還有一層M樓.原來是飯店問過我們有沒有需要身障設施房 原來我們於是選了身障設施房.有附洗澡椅.浴室沒玻璃門 不過後來發現身障設施房因爲杜拜法規規定需要盡量保留大空間而比普通房少了一張我們預備要給善善睡的沙發椅 最後解決方式是換房間 還好就從104換到隔壁房103 而且距離電梯出口只有五步之遙.出入方便.有多的垃圾還能拿到電梯外面的公共垃圾桶丟 然後解決方式是Andy站著扶善善.我用蓮蓬頭幫他沖洗 Morrisa



Our Day 4 In Dubai:準備好我們明天整天要包車八小時去車程ㄧ個多小時的豪華的阿布達比大清真寺需要穿的長裙和要當頭巾(女士不可露出頭髮)的長絲巾當頭巾.接著我們會前往八星級的酋長皇宮飯店喝下午茶(一樣若非住客及用餐無法進入參觀).我從第二三天起已經完全調整為杜拜時間的生理時鐘了~ Morrisa



Our Day 4 In Dubai: 今天有看了六星豪華飯店雅特蘭提斯裡很美又空靈神秘療癒的失落的密室水族館.居然還能在大面水族箱前面坐在或躺在墊子上仰角看成片的魚群.還進去了七星飯店帆船飯店喝下午茶變成晚餐.不但看到海還看到夜景...還有帆船飯店裡慶祝中國新年的舞獅跟擊鼓...來杜拜還是多看了ㄧ些世界記錄跟世界之最...Morrisa



2017年1月28日 星期六

Our Day 4 In Dubai : 和Andy當超強兩人組搭檔帶中重度多重障礙善善飛遠國全自助旅行的優缺點:他的優點是透過網路執行規畫的能力強和行程中高環境適應力跟高耐受力,缺點是溝通能力很弱和口語表達能力不完整又很弱溝通.對外溝通全部都是我在做.時常會交代不清楚和說我不知道啦.我怎麼知道這樣必較不負完全責任的話.特別是在高壓情境下...另外一點是他雖然會預訂如三個人就要15000NT的高價帆船飯店跟酋長皇宮飯店下午茶.可是和他生活跟旅行就知道.他身上十年如一日有一種比較偏節儉小器的氣質.雖然我也不是奢華的人.還有他會省自己給我們...可是如果和一個這種氣質的男人生活.生活自然會比較沒情調.花錢比較不開心和不太可能有仰慕你的男人之情.男人是要大器跟完全足以保護得了一家才能令人仰慕...Morrisa


Day 3 In Dubai:今日行程是在我們飯店(Rove Hotels)吃美味早午餐.下午到六星級飯店亞特蘭提斯看水族館.還有傍晚5:00到七星級帆船飯店喝下午茶 ~Morrisa


Our Day 3 In Dubai: 我依然很感恩的是繼2013年在紐西蘭過年之後這是結婚後第二次不必在台灣過中國年...因為我其實一點都不想在台灣過年...過年感覺很刻意而很多不方便不自由很麻煩...就像有些人連求婚都要刻意費心安排.不是很累很不自然嗎...如果過年全程都不在台灣閃開過年的不便.對我來說就很感恩幸運謝天謝地幸福多了...Morrisa


Our Day 3 In Dubai: 雖然帶善善飛到遠國自助旅行ㄧ年比一超級辛苦而更要克服許許多多的困難,特別是體力跟善善每年增加的重量,甚至夫妻不知道要在從頭到尾的過程中無數的細節跟高壓力值惟有我倆完全承擔耐受而口角N 次,但是更辛苦可怕和令人受不了的的是因爲到哪裡都永遠受到行動不便的種種限制而被困在台灣或是就算移民其實一點也不作此想..一樣是被困在那個國家沒兩樣...那才是不如不要早一天還給宇宙也罷的那種人生...Morrisa


Our Day 3 In Dubai: 今天也終於在等看杜拜世界聞名的夜間水舞前,在玩具店找到這本約台幣1000元的英文版夢工場故事有聲書,既是善善自己喜愛的和選的,又很適合他,右側對應每個故事都有很多音樂有聲按鍵可按壓音效,非常適合善善這種特殊的孩子...不管是英國-8hrs還是杜拜-4hrs的時差,都比較適合早睡的我們家,就是我們會早睡,然後在當地時間很早就自動會起床,距離通常多數10:00Am出門,還有三個小時以上可以在飯店房間裡慢慢吃早餐和安心上廁所,因此不會因爲旅行而影響非常重要的如廁順不順人生大事....Morrisa


Our Day 3 In Dubai: 我今天終於Dubai Mall買到我喜愛的中東藝術品傢飾和找到這間我喜歡的中東藝術品店-Al Jabber Gallery,其實我真心不愛逛街和超大型購物中心,只有善善愛逛街...買到自己喜愛的藝術品稍稍平衡我這三天都因爲看杜拜水舞和用餐方便每天都在Dubai Mall裡消磨大量時間跟大量步行,每天買些自己喜愛的收藏品真的才有度到假和慰勞自己帶善善全自助旅行的超級辛苦和不便,都是永遠24hrs隨時在當看護,像是永遠必需照顧一個無法幫忙還要佔一個完全人力的baby...一年比一年出國自助旅行要重要難...只差在帶著善出國自助旅行超級辛苦但咬牙裡面總是苦中偶有甜,如果因此為超高難度久就被迫無法出國自助旅行,心理會更苦!特別是第一二天加搭機整個過程凡事都尚未熟悉時比在家帶善善已經很辛苦要難N倍和很難好心情好臉色跟全自助旅行時每天步行數小時的勞累),出發前幾天直到上飛機都ㄧ直在感冒咳嗽未完全痊癒,今天更熟悉環境一些和有逛到適合我逛的喜愛的店,才感覺平衡很多!雖然我不是購物狂也不愛囤積,喜愛簡單質優的生活,但疼愛自己和平衡真的好重要!不然帶著善善逛街怎麼可能有時間體力慢慢認真替自己看什麽東西) Morrisa


2017年1月25日 星期三

Arriving In Rove Hotels, Dubai (抵達杜拜市中心的Rove Hotels),機場海關真的都是戴著白色頭巾,披著白袍,蓄山羊鬍的阿拉伯人,連一下飛機的機場音樂都是阿拉伯音樂,阿聯酋航空上的芝麻街也是阿拉伯版本的~Morrisa


終極上並沒有失敗的關係,所有進入我們生命中的關係或長或短,對於雙方雙向來說都有設計和學習上的意圖跟目地,而讓我們成為擴展成接下來的新版本,所以終極上來說並沒有失敗的關係!


貢 獻 自 己 特 長 的 感 覺 是 美 好 的


每 天 向 內 探 詢 : 我 在 這 裡 的 生 命 目 的 跟 天 命 是 什 麼?


今 天 我 又 進 化 成 一 個 新 的 靈 魂


試 著 在 和 我 們 相 異 的 人 身 上 瞥 見 神 性 的 設 計 跟 存 在


You are Eternal Spirit


Peace Not Drama


In my world, nothing goes wrong.


Now Never Ends


Circumstances don't make a man. They reveal him.